Don't Let Guilt Ruin Your Rest | Mindset & Relaxation Guide
- Sam J Shelley
- Sep 2, 2025
- 2 min read
That inner voice telling you to work harder during every holiday sounds like a bossy toddler throwing a tantrum.
You know the one I'm talking about. It starts whispering the moment you sit down to relax. "You should be doing something productive right now. Everyone else is getting ahead while you're just sitting there."
What a load of nonsense.
Your mind treats rest like it's some kind of emergency. Like the world will collapse if you take five minutes to breathe without checking your phone or thinking about tomorrow's tasks.
Here's the funny thing though. The more we chase that mental chatter, the more stuck we actually become. It's like being on a hamster wheel that never stops spinning. We keep running faster and faster but never actually get anywhere different.
The real magic happens when we finally hop off that wheel. When we stop feeling guilty about taking breaks and actually allow ourselves to be still. That's when new possibilities can sneak into our lives.
Think about it this way - if you're always filling every moment with busy work, there's no space for anything better to show up. It's like trying to pour fresh water into a glass that's already overflowing.
Your body knows how to heal when you give it permission to rest. Your mind knows how to solve problems when you stop forcing solutions. Your spirit knows how to guide you when you quit drowning out its whispers with constant noise.
The most productive thing you can do is absolutely nothing productive at all.
Speaking of rest and healing, our recent podcast episode dives deep into releasing that guilt around taking care of yourself. Join us as we clear those energetic blocks that keep you stuck in the hustle trap.








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